Hi all. Karen58, i tried to post to you, but your stich is full, so start a new one please! Something weird happened to me last week, has nothing to do with H, but to do with xH. We have been divorced for a very long time and in that time he has had many wifes. Well it seems that his anniversary with currant W was last week. He took present wife to a favorite place we use to go and stay with the kids back when! Calls our kids (2 from that marriage ) and asks them if they can guess where he is, when they say no, he tells they and they goes on to tell them about the place and how it looks nothing like it use to when we use to go there! I was stunded when the kids told me this, has this man been in MLC for years and no one has known about it? or is he just nuts?! I saw him at one of the grandsons birthday party Sunday, and when i had a moment alone with him, i told him that i had heard about him going there. Asked him what it was like and he went into great detail about how things have changed and on and on. When he got done, i looked at him and told him that i think that he took the wrong wife with him! You should have seen the expression on his face! As if a light bulb had just been turned on! It just amazed me!
On with the present H. He seems to have scared himself and gone back up the tunnel. He is still calling but i have not seen him in a few weeks now. Everytime that I mention seeing him or him coming to the house to help with something, he has all kinds of reasons why he can't. I know this will pass again, it is just hard waiting. I keep asking God for guidence as to what i am suppose to do the same what that you do Karen58 and alot of other people here.Just seems that no answers come or at least none that i know of. I wonder too what will happen to H if i stop waiting, leaving no one to pray for him or for him to see a place that he can go to when he finally can break free. Then there are times that i don't think that he will ever leave his castle. OW and him had a small history right before us, and when he first got with her, he told me that they always had a connection.So am i really waiting for something that will never happen? I just don't know.It seems as time goes on, my eyes are opened more and more to the way he has always been. Have i been making excuses for the way he has done things in our marriage, things that i just accepted. I can see him doing things the same way with OW and wonder why he has not realized what is going on? Will he be the same if and when he emerges from his MLC, or will he have grown up? So many questions that go thru my mind everyday. Well enough wondering, guess that i will go for now,take care. Huggs and Prayers, Sonni
