I would say not to have the C call him...in reality if your H is having a MLC he still needs time...I know I look back and see my H had a mini-MLC about 8/9 years ago...then 6 years ago he started into a major MLC...it culminated 3 years ago with OW and leaving his family...he was gone for nearly 2 years...and gradually we have worked things out together so that we are happy and in love again...but if you notice this wasn't done in just a few months...and it didn't take MC...we went initially for 3 visits and H said he was done...when he came back and was emotionally ready to work on things we didn't need MC...we just needed to listen to each other...
