Where is my wife?

[MJontheMend]

And that's why I became a "nice girl". I didn't want to be a raging, verbally abusive maniac like my mother. So, I end up married to a man with a bad temper and I tried to control his anger too because I didn't want my kids to experience that. Just recently it occurred to me that part of the reason I'm so happy he is gone is that I was actually kind of afraid of him. Maybe I'm just a wimp but it's kind of scary when a man breaks a wooden counter top and calls you a c*nt. Kind of might make you back down from enforcing whatever boundary you were working on at the moment. Well, anyway, I'm sure I did him no favors with my crybaby behavior. Besides, now I'm free to date kindergarten teachers and men who chuckle when they drop air conditioners from second floor windows.