Actually, I'm kind of getting sick of the whole HD/LD schemata. i don't think of my 2bx as LD anymore. I think of him as "a man who chose not to f*ck or make love to me very often" as well as "a man who chose to quit jobs quite frequently" and "a man who chose to drink a lot of beer" and "a man who chooses not to pay child support." Which is why I choose not to be married to him. There's no way in heck I would date his clone if he showed up on Match.com and posted a halfway honest profile.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
