Thanks DIY for all the links. I have been using Astroglide, and it seems to work pretty well. I may check some other things out if I get a chance.
Yeah, I'm trying to be sypathetic to FIL AND maintain boundaries, and we already know I'm piss poor at boundaries. I sometimes worry I'm going overboard, when I'll bet I'm not even close to having as hard a boundary as most people.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
