Yep, I did mean on. That will have to do for now. Don't worry about the vivid imagination, I've learned to enjoy that for now. Someday I hope I can sit back with W and laugh about all this. I might have to only admit to the PG version, we're not the drinking type. However, there have been times when I have thought about using that approach to really find out what was going on. But since they don't recommend it in the book, I've avoided that.

As far as the quick contact, I think I'll throw a few of those in every so often and see how things progress. I guess I decided I wasn't waiting around forever, I was either going to step up the pace or go down in flames. This whole R started with me planting one on her, which woke her up and made her evaluate what she thought of me. So I guess I'm at square one again. Yes that's square one, not ground zero.