Thirty minutes to an hour a day is a LOT to start with! In fact, that sounds darn near impossible.
Why not set a timer for 15 minutes, and spend the time saying things you like about each other instead of the vague directive to "talk about your relationship." IOW keep it positive at first so both get over the scariness of talking about this stuff.
Yeah, it's going to be difficult, but I think 15 mins is difficult enough... holy crap! an hour a DAY talking about feelings right out of the gate? To me that's a directive to crash and burn. (Pardon my inter-species racing metaphors.)
