I'm sorry to hear that things are not going as well as you had hoped. However, as Steve says, it is early days yet. From what I understand, he is in therapy. How often does he go? Have you met with the T? Has the T given you any indication of how long this will take? I think that these are important points to consider. Read Peaceful Spirit's latest thread - Growing Up. She posted about a talk she had w/ her H's psych. I think you need to do something like this - with B's permission, of course.
Lisa, this is NOT going to be easy. It is going to take several months or even a year or so, I think, before you really feel comfortable with B and your M. It is going to be hard for B to be totally honest w/ you b/c it's just not his way of doing things. I'm not saying that it's okay, but just that it's normal.
I would strongly suggest that you meet w/ his T, either with or w/o him, and find out what the prognosis is, so that you can make an informed decision.
Much love, Nicola
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