Sara,

I hope you can help answer these questions. One minute my W and are not divorcing the next she is marching to the attorney. So I don't know if I can get her to go, I have asked in the past and meet with no, but I think things have changed enough for her position to change. However, if she does file, would it be unwise to tell her I will uncontest the D and give her all she wants (we have already worked out terms, so I know what I would be agreeing to) if she will do this one weekend with me?

Second, I live in a state that the program in not available. We will have to fly or drive at least 7 hours one-way to attend. Which really kills the possibility of returning for the other weekends, unless we pick maybe one or two and do them. Would it be worth it if we can't do the follow-up weekends?

Thanks in advance I really appreciate the input. FYI I was being sarcastic on GD's thread. Not sure if anyone realized that. hehe!


Me: 31
W: 31
S: 2
Bomb 6-24-07
Seperated 6-24-07
W Filed October
Temp. Hearing 11-26-07
Completely Sober Jan. 2, 08.