I disagree whole heartedly. If those feelings were there in the beginning, why can’t they be there again? There is nothing keeping them from happening again, except for the two people involved. There is no reason a couple cannot have them again.
I guess I did not mean to imply that I disagreed with that statement, its just that in my situation I do not believe my W has the inclination to want those feelings again. I could be wrong. After all, for several months until we sold our house she seemed to enjoy coming over to have dinner, be intimate and spend the weekend after she moved out. Crazy!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM