All of the above and Wow. Tremendous conversation. Lots of validation for you regarding your changes from someone positioned to know best.
OT kindof hit on something too. I know you feel guilty, but you're W did decide to leave.
Overlooked, I think, in all of this is that the D has been postponed until Dec. I know you're pretty detached from your W right now, but, who knows, you might feel differently next week. Keep it up. You are the man.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY