Thanks everyone for your thorough replies. It's interesting to see how other people's situations differ or mirror your own. I hope some of the questions were thought provoking in some way. A common theme is that few of us understand our partner at this present moment. I certainly don't. Why is there no desire to see me at all? No desire at all.
I wish everyone well in their sitches.
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)