GD - I think you handled it well. It is an understatement to say "Heck, I'm still helping her out quite a bit," and that includes what you have done for her and what you said you would do for her. I agree with OT in that you shouldn't make any of this part of the D settlement. Get that down to what it has to be. If you want to do more later, you can. DOn't make other promises now, because you may have to go back on them like you did on the house (which I was the right thing to do, in case that wasn't clear).

Hope you're well buddy. It sounds like it.

Nomo \:\)

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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