For once if I can show her I can be patient and give her time and space it may get her to want to be with me more.
You talk the talk. Now walk that walk. You and me both brother.
Originally Posted By: DaveJ
Too bad the W doesn't have much faith in me accomplishing my goals. Of course me continously saying I won't talk about R and breaking down does not help at all. I'm really stopping now and hopefully during the S I can show her that I can keep my mouth shut.
EEEEEXXXXAAAAACTLY!!! How is she going to believe you when you keep showing her otherwise??? Remember "Open mouth, insert foot here!!!"
Take your advice you just gave svjeck and I quote, "In the meantime, if you feel the need to talk to your W about the R, pretend that your computer is your W and your hands on the keyboard are your mouth. Let it out here or in a personal journal."
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
