Chrom I will say, that for now, using a condom with extra lubrication does shorten the entry time by about half.
BB and I used Astroglide, it was better than KY products. Then I read a women's forum where too tight was a problem and the tight women had some success with silicone lubes. The silicone lobe worked better than Astroglide. I bought ID Millennium silicone lube from a local store.
There are polyurethane male and female condoms
Condoms come ready lubricated to make them easier to use. Some people also like to use additional lubrication. Any lubricant can be used with male or female polyurethane condoms. If you are using a male latex condom, you should never use oil-based products (such as body oils, creams, lotions or petroleum jelly) as a lubricant. This is because they can damage the latex and make the condom more likely to split. Some ointments can also damage latex. If you are using medication in the genital area (for example, creams, pessaries or suppositories) ask your doctor, nurse or pharmacist if it will affect latex condoms.
About paying your FIL, I wasnt thinking about paying him carpenters wages. If he wanted to work for half the going rate and pay cash is what I had in mind.
If you are trading work, that is good too as long as he gets something HE wants.
I think Cobra's idea about your FIL feelings need to be considered because he is not employed is something you should give more thought and actions towards.
When I wasn't at work due to my medical situation, I wasn't feeling very secure.
Some people use being off work to their advantage. Me I feel lost.
