CY,

I'm sorry that your wife is being so difficult. I cannot understand why some people plant their feet in concrete and refuse to budge. You sure can't dance like that. I've learned to be as light on my feet as possible and adapt to change, but then I trained as dancer. I think it was good training for life too.

I will pray for you. Her family is not helping her by destroying her marriage. If she moves on and marries again, the same set of circumstances will happen again. Life is a matter of survival of the fittest, those who don't adapt, don't survive.