I hear what you're saying, and just want to make sure you know that W didn't leave me for OM -- she began dating him 4 months after the separation and 2 months after I filed for D. She wasn't cheating on me, really, and I don't think either of us see it as an A. I know this doesn't change the fact that she is with someone else and not with me, but it does cause me to not see her R as one of the factors that contributed to the breakdown of our M. You're right though -- need to quit acting like an H. I'm getting better at it real fast, but will keep working on it.
