OK so J (guy from Friday night) - what a pursuer. On one hand - it's kind of a nice feeling. On the other I don't fully trust him and how can you be "so hooked" as he seems to be after a few hours?
So he kept saying he wanted to see me, wanted me to come see him, wanted to have dinner, etc. and we finally agreed to lunch. Lunch seems fairly safe. Afternoon, no worries about him expecting anything after.....
But OMG I haven't been on a date in like......ever.
Met XH 13 years ago, I was in high school and it was him and I. No real dating.......
I want to feel normal again.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Going to lunch Thursday - am slightly nervous about it but he seems nice enough and hey, it's lunch.
Now, here's where it might get interesting soon. My parents helped to change the locks on the door. He still has the opener for the garage, so I locked the walk in door. He's back in town from his trip. Had someone log in for him to change his myspace to single (I had changed mine last Saturday after seeing him with her)....
So last night I went to Yoga with my friend. My mom watched D for the hour and a half. On my way down there I pass him, just getting back from his trip and craning his neck to see in my truck. About 30 minutes later, I got a text from him -- "You working"
I did not reply.
Validate me please LOL
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
well I assume he was trying to see 1. if I had someone with me, or 2. if I had D with me -- so he could try saying I have her at a sitter on my time with her.
Well when I have her 98% of the time, I might NEED a sitter once in a while so I can go do something that might keep or make me sane.....
his case would hold no water. And frankly it doesn't matter why he was doing it....I just thought it was funny.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
one other interesting thing. I was told that he was mailing a check to the state on the 17th for August's child support. I should have had it by now...so I'm stopping at a local office to get paperwork to start enforcement........Don't know if I can get the back support at all (kind of doubt it but am going to find out)
please pray.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
LOL
