Great job on the convo, but don't give her crap unless you want to for you. She will become dependant on it and then when you have a new life you will get sick of helping her out and when you find a "special lady friend" she won't appreciate it all that much either. It's just another connection point, I think my W is heading in the same way, she thinks she can keep getting things from me as a H but not play her role as a W, M doesn't work that way.
