Unfortunately what is she looking for that feeling of love? Is it the passion from the beginning? If so then she's delusional. That's all hormones and it won't happen again. Is it just romantic feelings for you?
I disagree whole heartedly. If those feelings were there in the beginning, why can’t they be there again? There is nothing keeping them from happening again, except for the two people involved. There is no reason a couple cannot have them again.
Originally Posted By: DaveJ
I read somewhere that to love someone is a choice. You chose to love somebody.
To love someone is a choice, but the feeling of being in love is a symptom.
Dave, don't let the opinions of upset you. They are just trying to help you out by expressing them. As long as you are a peace with your decision and feel it is in “YOUR” best interest then that is all that matters. I do not agree with asking your wife for a separation contract. If that is not pressuring, then I do not know what is. To me it comes across as clingy and needed as all get out.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
