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Unfortunately what is she looking for that feeling of love? Is it the passion from the beginning? If so then she's dillusional.
Not sure really. She also made the comment she may have never loved me. I attribute to MLC, but who really knows. I realize about the time thing, but am growing weary and feel that hope is being wasted.

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I read some where that to love someone is a choice.
I have read this several times since the bomb and have heard in church several times since then also. Hard to believe I never heard before recently.

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I'm hoping in a little while she will want to work on this M instead of feeling hopeless.
I am hoping for the same thing, but am not as hopeful as I once was. Good luck DaveJ.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM