To add to that - inaction IS an action. For those who are in situations where they are choosing not to act - remember that. Also remember that if your SO isn't acting on something - it isn't that they forgot. Where YOU go from there is all up to you.
So true.
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Wow MJ - you have come a long way. I admire that. I am currently choosing to love without desire and to act on only those things in the R that require my attention - appreciate what needs appreciating and indicate lack of appreciation for crappy actions. My participation is minimal and for several reasons that suits me right now.
Here's something that might amuse you guys. Recently NG suggested that we might have a date where we didn't have sex and my reaction was to think that it was kind of sweet and kind of a good idea. - lol . So, I hereby resign my status as HD individual. When you label me you negate me etc. etc. Except maybe I'll label myself (quite optimistically) DBD which shall stand for "differentiated beyond drive" (I wonder what would be appropriate attire for a "no sex" date? Maybe something floral with a lot of buttons? Suggestions welcome.)
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
