Unfortunately what is she looking for that feeling of love? Is it the passion from the beginning? If so then she's dillusional. That's all hormones and it won't happen again. Is it just romantic feelings for you? If so then it takes time to rebuild. It's build on positive memories which needs to happen between you two slowly over time. It certainly took years for the marriage to deteriorate. It will take a long time to rebuild. I read some where that to love someone is a choice. You chose to love somebody.
Anyhow, I'm hoping in a little while she will want to work on this M instead of feeling hopeless. Of course if she's hopeless, she may not even want to go.... *sigh*
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
