I agree wholeheartedly. Desire is a choice. Love is a choice. To add to that - inaction IS an action. For those who are in situations where they are choosing not to act - remember that. Also remember that if your SO isn't acting on something - it isn't that they forgot. Where YOU go from there is all up to you.
Wow MJ - you have come a long way. I admire that. I am currently choosing to love without desire and to act on only those things in the R that require my attention - appreciate what needs appreciating and indicate lack of appreciation for crappy actions. My participation is minimal and for several reasons that suits me right now.
