I pray and hope my wife will want to do Retrovaille but she told me she is not willing to fix the marriage, even when I told her that putting the kids through this will be hard, especially since they both have ADHD.
I'm not sure this is right, but I took my wedding ring off too as of this past Sunday. She hasn't worn hers since June, 2006.
The worst part is her family backs her decision and they are the only ones who hate me. During our talk about this a few weeks ago, I told her that for years, I felt like an Idiot because you would constantly critize everything I did. Of course she has an answer to everything and said "No I didn't." I have validated her comments to me, she will not do the same. According to her and her family, I am at least 90% at fault, maybe more.
All I can do is pray and I handed this problem over to God to do as He Wills. Reading all these posts it sounds so positive but she is too hurt. She is allowed to be hurt by the past, I'm not.
I would be willing to do Retrovaille as a last resort. Divorce Busting didn't work. Mort Fertel has e-mailed me to try the Lone Ranger trak but I have my doubts that will help.
Please pray for me and my wife so she will begin to see things.
