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Maybe float the idea of Retrouvaille up again. She said she's definitely open to it but just isn't ready right now.
I would agree. However, be cautious for what you ask. The comments earlier about the success rate are interesting. I have read between 70-80%, but by no means 1000:1. Anyway, I was able to get my W to attend, and while she thought the program was very beneficial she came to the conclusion afterwards that she 'could not find that feeling of love for me' and moved out the next week (6.5 months ago). Perhaps it would not be a bad idea if Retrouvaille should be mandatory before anyone gets married!! Good luck.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM