Still Seperated and Hopeful

[mcojh]

HB-Thanks. I am going to survive. I truly know this. As far as your H goes, has he ever said why or what made him make the decision to leave the OW? How much of an impact did your going dark have?

I have a hard time with the friendly but not friends thing. That just runs contrary to my entire being. As is fairly obvious, I still want this M to work out. I am not sure how to best accomplish this.

Early on in this seige, I read something on the DB website about the guy who was his W's "bestfriend" during the seperation and the A. The article is called something like "While your spouse decides".

I am not sure how to tell what the best course of action is.