Hi Lisa. Sorry to hear you are going through BS with this guy. Seems like he has done nothing to work through things.
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Do I cut my loses now or tough it out for the kids?
That is hard to answer. I have seen cases where people stay together, are miserable and the kids suffer. I have seen the opposite. I have seen divorces where things are bad and others, like mine, where we can have a happy albeit diiferent type of family. Only you can answer that. But under no circumstances should be lied to or treated poorly. And I do tend to think that if you are unhappy, it will translate into unhappiness for your children. Can't say that for sure. Perhaps you need to talk to a professional about this.
