No I don't know how long it is. At first she said maybe 30 days, but I want her to take her time and think things through and see that I have changed. It will probably take a lot longer. By making her sign agreements or whatever will only push her away from this M. I will give her 30+ days and see how she feels. Maybe float the idea of Retrouvaille up again. She said she's definitely open to it but just isn't ready right now. There is one in Phoenix on 11/16 or something like that and I'm hoping she'll be up for that by then. I've been pushing this entire marriage and it's one thing that gets her really angry. For her to see I have changed I need to stop that behavior. Otherwise it will just go the other way.
I'm also hoping that after a little bit she'll be comfortable with more contact, going out on dates and etc. Here's hoping.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
