If she moves out she's taking the kids with her. Also, I will appear as a jerk and there's no way no how she'll even consider recounciliation. It would be the end. Dom, just let it go ok? It's the decision I made and I'm at peace with it. I will make the best of the situation and do what I have in control of to save this M. I am not on bad terms with my W. It's the past history and not the present that's our problem. Her brother is about to get a divorce and their situation is beyond wacked.
In fact, I got an ILY, couple hugs, and a very nice kiss this morning. She's not looking to screw me, she's a very genuine person that is not evil and manipulative. She just needs some space and time to think. She doesn't have ulterior motives. She is just hurting. You can call me naive, stubborn, or whatever. It is the way I feel and I'm trying to turn this into something positive in the long term.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
