Really will try whatever I can to stop talking about the R. Really doing my M in. Grrrr.... Got wife really pissed and thinking that I'm the still same person. Wish she can see the other positive improvements I have made. Hope she will. I think the S will help me with the shutup thing.
Very disappointed that W thinks that the children are young so they won't be affected by a D if we are good loving parents.
That is a big struggle for me also. It pisses me of to no end when my wife says “He will be fine. Other kids go through D and they are fine.” I don’t know if it is a way for her to justify what is happening, whether it is denial or what it is. But, I cannot imagine for one minute that she really believes that. All I do know is that is her opinion and there is nothing I can do about it and it took me several heated arguments with her about for me to realize there is nothing I can do about her feeling it or saying it and letting it bother me and blowing up over it accomplishes nothing.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
