Still Seperated and Hopeful

[Heartbroken]

MC,

Good to hear from you despite no real good updates...

I told my H about your sitch and asked why you WAS's do this - he did a lot of the same - why go to the effort of wanting to be with me and the OP??? He thinks your W is confused and not sure which way to go at this point. That's what it was for him and it took the combo of me showing him life w/out my friendship and his manipulating OW's true light to shine for him to figure it out. He finally got off that fence that so many of the WAS's are on right now.

The best thing I did was start to truly detach and figure out how to get along without him as hard as it was. I was so sure we were done that I even had the 10 yr old going house shopping with me. They thought we were going to be D'ing soon too... I guess fate had other plans.

Only you know your CW - we can only offer suggestions.

I hope you are doing okay despite all this BS - there are many of us out here that care and worry about you. Take care of yourself and the boys!

HB