yep, need to get the info specific to my state on that one. (anyone know offhand?)
lwb, I'm ashamed of getting her involved because she is getting physically affected by it. and if she gets very sick (which would be horrible), I would never forgive myself. I need to back off from her...I certainly need to stop the h talk with her, at the very least. it is wrong on so many levels.
busy morning...got to the gym, had a good w/o, have done lots of thinking but also am trying hard to put it aside for now. nothing I can do this moment, I'm just still so angry and surprised that he is so self-centered. and there is that part of me that is just waiting for the ambush.
but realistically, right now, I can't stop him. I can't. but I will look into the legalities of it. and if either he does it, or I have to use legal means to stop it, I'm afraid we can kiss out good streak of co-parenting good bye. I can see how it can get nasty and awful and its everything I don't want.
I don't want any of this, but if it is going to happen, then I think the least we can do is not hate each other/create chaos and anger where it can be avoided. maybe that's naive of me.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
