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. Keep doing it and soon the "hey look at me" look will come.


Hope so. Just think there are some legitimate concerns about the once and future(?) OM that are preventing her from really seeing me. Of course, in that case, detachment will become really easy, really quickly.

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W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
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Heim:

Just catching up after my couple of days of pure and excruciating Hell.

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On the good side, the bunk bed for the girls fits perfectly with plenty of room left over. Also, lots of room for a 42 inch HDTV.


Glad to hear the new place is going to have room for the new stuff. The 42 inch TV will do wonders for your GAL, I can attest to that.

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Well, time to start the picnic and see if the W decides to come out of her castle. Good analogy since we're taking the girls to the Maryland Renn Fest on Monday; hopefully not the end of an annual tradition for the four of us.


My W and I also had an annual tradition started 11 years ago when I surprised her going there one day. Man, that feels like ages ago. How things have changed. Think we won't be going this year. Kinda bums me out cuz I always enjoyed spending time there with her. Maybe I will go anyway, although some things will probably be tough to go see. Glad she agreed to go with you. It seems like she has been a bit more receptive to you lately. Keep it up.

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Want to say she looked a little surprised, like she thought she'd go with me for that.


SCORE!

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Mandi, I hope I keep scoring.

Stew, Dude, Renn Fest is always fun. They're a little more family friendly than they used to be (they seemed to be a little more, oh, ribald, in the past), but still a lot of fun. If there's a hypnotist show, check it out, those are usually great fun.

Quick journal/strange/diffenent W behavior

Nothing major last night. Just while I was taking a shower, getting ready for dance class, she poked her head into the bathroom. Odd. One, because she hasn't done that in quite a while. Two, because she was asking how much the depo on the apt. was, which easily could've waited until I got out of the shower.

Anyway, more a note to self on this than anything.

Happy Hump Day to all,

BD


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W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
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Hey Heimlich,
Glad to see you're making the best of the new place. Hopefully this and the true space you acheive from it will help you both. Maybe it will bring around more of those "Hey Look At ME looks"

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Certainly worth noting, H.
Are you sure she wasn't getting a peek at your hunky, toned bod?


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Showers? Nakedness! Sounds like a good sign to me. Cmon, who would poke their head in to ask about the deposit. Please. She was checkin you out man!

Keep it going.
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Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
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Heim,

What did I say, you start acting as if and they start looking, I had no idea she would look then.

Nice work!


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Thanks. Thought it was a little odd for her to poke her head in to ask that.

Maybe in a month or three she'll hop into the shower with me. That'd be an absolute good.

Bar, body is smaller, but not toned yet. Getting there, though. Getting there. Sadly, and this, unfortunately, is absolutely true. I weigh just at 195 now. When I finished my senior season of football, I weighed about 150 -- still had a small potbelly. Overall dimensions were smaller, but the ratios were about the same as now \:\(

Fingers crossed that working out and eating smarter reverse 36 years of genetics -- all gut and butt.

BD


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W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
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On behalf of all of us guys, too much info


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
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