Are we piecing yet?

[Heartbroken]

Faith,

I have been reading your sitch - since you seem to feel mine is only a few months/weeks ahead of yours.

It truly is an addiction our WAS have-- and I think the more you get your H to see what his life will REALLY be like without your and your friendship the better your chances of him breaking clean once and for all.

In my sitch it was the combo of the kids and I being gone that week in June (and I too did say I was NOT going to call him - I made it from Sat - till Thursday and then I was missing him so bad I called...) and the fact his OW was getting out of control - trying to manipulate him into something he was not ready for. There are so many factors that helped get us back together - I am not sure exactly how or why it even happened.

Just wanted you to know I would be doing the same things you are doing right now! Be friendly but lure him back - let him see what he is throwing away! Keep the faith, Faith! You are in my prayers!!

HB