HBT...NO R talk...drives them away! Come here and vent. Yes its overwhelming. I know Ive been there..we all have...it hurts so bad. But GAL and be stfrom them so they can think and work thru their issues. Its about them not you


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest