Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

LWB & LeftinCali-

Thank you so much. It was just one of those times that I felt alone. My H has been talking to me (although quiet at times), we continue to have sex, he still wears his ring, talks about things we're doing in the future.....but that other connection isn't there.....I feel because of OW and that's a big thing that's hurting right now.

Part of my problem is that our 3 yr old has been sick so I haven't been getting any sleep & haven't been able to do any of my own things.....walking/jogging.....to make myself feel better.

I haven't said ANYTHING to H about his mood/attitude change. I often ask myself if I should at least just say.....

**H, I can't keep pretending that I don't notice something is wrong. I don't want to push you if you don't want to talk about it, but I just don't want you to give up on me either.

......No real R talk, no I love you....don't leave me.....just straight forward with how I feel.

Any thoughts? And thanks again!

Oh, and our 13-year wedding anniversary is coming up on 9/3. I'm at a loss as to how to handle it.

SueS