BI,

I am not offering to counsel your husband vis a vis his relationship with you.

I'm here to help him get to work. I'm an HR professional and a headhunter I also will do so with the understanding that he's repented of his affair and needs to stop burying his head in the sand.

He needs a Christian who can give him permission to live like he's forgiven.

I think it's more of personal coaching and encouragement.

I won't judge him.

And the most important thing -- I'm foul-mouthed and have a disarming sense of humor.

If you don't feel comfortable with that, it's OK.

Let me know