I find this board to be the best, but the others I look at most often are below. I do have a list of books, but recently I have come to the conclussion there is no hope in my M so I have not invested any $ in buying books. Anyway, I hope I can link properly.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM