Me: Hey...this question was posed and it was said that if I needed to know the answer, I should just ask.
Him: Ok...what is it.
Me: Well.......why is it that you, the WAS just left and have not finished things up and have not seen things through before you started you new life?
Him: I am not a WAS, I simply moved out.
Me: Well, you moved out while I was at work and you didn't even warn me, nor did you bother for over a year to help in any sort of way in keeping the house up.
Him: I tried, but you wouldn't let me. I am not a WAS, I am paying the bills......so there.
Me: uh- ok, and thank you for doing that, BUT...now honey, I know we don't see things eye to eye but in 16 months or so you havent plucked a blade of grass, fixed a sprinkler, packed up anything.....I mean, I packed it for you and had you come get it out? Where you not at all interested in your stuff you wanted so desperatly.
Him: Yes, but I knew it was safe there and I am trying to simplify my life........
Me: Honey......you know they say, after going through a divorce that you should spend and X amount of time alone before jumping into another relationship....
Him: Guess thats why ours went down the crapper
Me: Yes, thats very true....but I have been doing alot of searching and spending alot of time alone organizing my thoughts and myself to where I can oneday say...I did my best. I did not runaway from my responsibilities.
Him: I did not run....
Me: No honey....you didn't. (drawing blood again) I was just trying to remind you in a nice way that in the good-bye letter you wrote to me , you said you needed to BE ALONE! YOU NEEDED TO FIND YOU! So now, you say our relationship went down the crapper (i detest that saying) because you jumped from one marriage into another without having your ALONE TIME....what do you think is going to happen to the one your in now...FLUSH!
Him: Thank you for your well wishes in my new relationship, I AM NOT a WAS.
Me: Ok honey....I do wish you happiness, this is why I suggested that you do have some alone time. OK...well, have a great day.
Him: Ok, I have to go back to work now, but I will call you later around 6-ish.
Me: Uh...ok, however being that you never call me when you say your going to call me.....I'll see you tomorrow night K?
Him: I said I would......
Me: Bye bye honey.....click.
So you see? I've been very wrong indeed. My x is neither a WAS or a MLC'er.....he just moved.
Damn....I shoulda asked that question YEARS ago. Things would have been alot simpler.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
and I am trying to simplify my life........
