LOL at the wave of insanity. One night I wandered around looking for H's khaki shorts. I couldn't find them anywhere and it drove me nuts. They were in the washer. Nut job here too.
I am curious what your friend told you to say to him, and what the letter says. Any thoughts to posting it? I am so sorry about your bad day, REALLY bad day. I can see why you are drawn to mil, don't be ashamed of that. Its very hard to 'cut' ties, especially because she supports you (right?).
Have a great day. Or at least have a 'functioning' day.