How long were you together? M 15+ years. How long have you been separated? 7 weeks. Do you understand what happened to cause the separation? Finally I believe so. What do you think your partner thinks of you (now, then)? That I am changing, but still sometimes return to the old ass. How does your partner behave towards you now? Friendly. Are you able to understand your partners actions? NEVER! Do you seen any glimmer of hope for your R coming from your partner? Yes. If so, how long did it take before hope appeared (following separation)? Immediately What do you think caused that change in your partner? My attitude. How regularly do you have *any* type of contact with your partner? Daily. How often do you see your partner? Almost daily. Is that often enough? Never enough. Have you gone through a 'dating period'? No. Was that positive? Are you able to discuss your R at all or is that too dangerous? No, it is to dangerous and counter-productive. What do you do with your free time? Take care of son, read books, visit the forums, work, gym. How do you handle the feeling of being lonely, assuming you do feel that way? I am struggling with it. Weekends alone are killer. What do you think about your partner (now, then)? Much better understanding of how she has felt over the years. Lost to what her feelings are today. Do you still want to reconcile? I want nothing more.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
