Yay! You already sound better. I'm glad you recognize all that you're missing out on by focusing on the negative.

Change your mind, you change your whole relationship. When I start to feel icky about my M, it's usually because I've slipped and started focusing on the negative again. (Like I've been doing this week...BAD SD!)

And yeah, Cherrisher!!! Let us know what's up with you and how you're doing. You gave me some advice early on that really helped my sitch. Hope you're doing well!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!