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Hey jersting.

Sorry to see you where you are, and I know exactly how that is.

I am 36 hours away from the big day in court and i feel as though my world is falling apart again....

I guess what I would say to this is that the world you knew is going away, but the world itself isn't falling apart.

While this does really, really hurt - no doubt about it I can tell you from firsthand experience that it does get better. You'll realize that there is a whole new life ahead for you to build as you choose.

That's probably little comfort right now, and perhaps also a little unbelievable.....

In the interim, just focus on feeling whatever there is to feel. Mourn the loss, feel the rage or sadness or whatever. But don't allow yourself to get stuck there, either.

I sometimes wish I could have a remote like adam sandler in the movie click just so i could fast foward a couple of years when hopefully this will be completely behind me.

I used to wish for this too. I've never seen the movie but one of my closest, wisest friends pointed out to me that in this movie, he ended up missing out on some very good times too...

If you could fast forward, what might you miss that you would regret?

Hang in there man. Keep your eyes on your trip to Vegas?

Take care,