Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

I'm back at work.....at least for the morning. Our little D was feeling better last night, so I may be here all day.

So here's a question for everyone. I'm trying to figure out what H is going through. I posted yesterday that over the weekend when he had way too much to drink, that H asked me to bring someone else into our relationship for a one-time thing. I said no, but it makes me wonder about something. I know OW isn't a blonde....as he said he wanted for this one-time thing. He has also mentioned (about a month ago) that he'd love to move back to CA. I told him that my mom had commented that if we ever moved back there that she'd have to retire so she could travel and spend time with our D. His comment was.....tell her to start planning her retirement party.

All this just makes me wonder. I know that H is having some sort of an A with OW. I feel at this time that it's mostly an EA. Do these comments mean that his feelings for her aren't really solid? Is this just something that he's doing because he's going through a MLC and wants that excitement right now?

SueS