It is good to hear you are taking actions in regards to your issues.
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It's long road indeed, and the more I get into this the further away any reconciliation,
Unfortunately, there is much sense to this. You both need to change, so as you change and you aren't together, you are getting farther away. Frustrating stuff.
As for you wife, other than the impulsive Mini Cooper purchase, everything else you say could be seen as a positive. She needs to improve herself. This is why I caution about the quick MLC diagnosis. And to be honest, anyone who jumps on ad quickly says, "yep, MLC" should be taken with a grain of salt. We have never met your wife.
But keep doing what you need to do for you. Also, to address your notion of total detachment, sometimes a break is needed to see a real difference. But you have a good attitude about this. Make sure you hold onto it.
