Sad that he believes we can't change who we are! We certainly can it takes a lot of effort and discipline but it can be done. Too bad the adversary is at work here! You see it all over the board. It attacks those who think they want out and those that think they are willing to stay.

It continues to put doubt in both minds, it continues to through darts at everything and seeks to destroy the family and it hopes to finally destroy the individual through this. I don't know what to say except stay the course and find help, there is one who can help and he will show the way. Ask him for help, he will answer maybe not right away but he will answer. Do not fear your outcome, forgive yourself and forgive you H. he is in the grasp of the wicked one and doesn't know how to break free.

I know, I was there, it was all about me and what I want. That is not the way in a relationship with anyone, it is about the other. Let me ask this do the motorcycle thing and reschedule Retro. What is most important is you reconcile, not where you do it but you do it. Beat the adversary at his own game, what have you got to lose! Do it together, have fun appreciate him and he will appreciate you! My best wishs. Please don't lose faith see things for what they are, not what they appear to be.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!