I've only got a second. I can GUARANTEE you that I won't judge him. NOP will do a MUCH better job than me at teaching him how to be manly and will wield 2x4s more skillfully than me, but I can definitely be an understanding shoulder to cry on, and someone who is also dealing with the aftermath of sticking his head up his a$$ ... repeatedly. I don't know the other fellow you mentioned, maybe he is the same as me. But I do understand depression and emotional infidelity and low self-esteem. It is your H's choice though. Maybe if you told him who we are and what we can offer to him, he could make a choice of where he wants to go with it.
I do remember how hard it was for me to reach out the first time to my first C. It was worth it.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
