Depending on why they walk away (MLC vs WAS), I think there is alot of confusion and or depression and they don't follow through b/c of that. Then again...I don't really know.
How do you feel about all of this? Do you want to finish it up or let the sleeping dog lie? What do you think would happen if you did contact her or do yu even want to (as opposed to being afraid to)?

Just thinking out loud.

Take care.