K, When my H brought the ow on vacation with him and the boys I thought that was the final straw and I would no longer be standing for my M. But it seems I still can't let go. I find it so hard so I know how you feel.

It is pretty pathetic that at the present time our H really have no place to call home. I heard from my SIL that he hasn't slept at his Mom's house the last few days so I wouldn't be surprised if he is back living with the ow and her parents again. S6 told me that her cousins that moved in are no longer there.

How come you do not want to switch weekends with him? If it doesn't inconvenience you, maybe you should do it otherwise he may think you are just being spiteful. JMO. I know how you hate being walked all over like a doormat because I feel the same way, but sometimes I think we need to give in on certain things.

Glad your finger is getting better. Give me a call tomorrow if you want.

((((((hugs))))))


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009